'Who moved my cheese' is a fab read
I have my top 10 philosophies on life listed on my FB info page for all to see, I've listed them below for you:
1. The only person you can change in life is yourself, you can never change anyone else.
2. If people do not like the way you are, why should you change for them?
3. Always do what you want to do in life and not what you think others would want to see you do
4. Relationships are two ways - no point being in one if its not right for both of you.
5. If its not right, accept it and move on
6. The best form of revenge is to do nothing, why exert energy on others when its better used to help you move on with your new life
7. Everyone has a past, just try not to keep re-living it; learn from it and move on, your future will benefit
8. Accept that "sex" has an "ex" as part of it, its pointless going over old ground when you meet someone new
9. Every single one of us has needs of one form or another - so it's great when there's a mutual understanding
10. Your real friends in life are sometimes the ones who don't say anything at all