Hi all, I'm new to this forum. My husband announced on mothers day that he was leaving. His reasons did not make sense but I've since found out he has someone else. I considered him to be my soul mate, I trusted him with my life. I'm trying to carry on but I'm so lost. When I look back over the past year....The signs were there. Friends have been great, but I can't and don't expect people to drop everything and change their lives just because mine has changed. Terrified of starting again at 43!