Things are going well with Y and me, and we have even ventured to the saying boyfriend-girlfriend stage. Of course things are reallllly slow, we are very proper around our kids (he has two girls, 7 and 5) so we only really get lunch dates, which are not real dates. I REALLY need to get a regular babysitter.
Anyway, me ex now knows that I am seeing someone and wants to get to know him, which is perfectly reasonable, as I remember when I found out about his girlfriend and wanting to meet her. OK, M wasn't yet 2 yrs old, and she and him had been having an affair so I wasn't happy with her moral judgement, but still, I think it's important for both parents to know people who are important in their child's life. Thing is, Y isn't IN M's life yet, no more than anymore of my work friends, expat friends or M's friends parents, so I do not want to make a big deal about our relationship before our relationship is a big deal.
Question is.... how do I arrange for ex and Y (ha ha ha, ex and Y..... ) to 'meet' (ex is happy with skype) without getting M's hopes up?
If I do have non-M time with Y and he has non M and S (ha ha, his kids are M and S) time I don't really want to spend that time with ex... but it is really important to ex to know him.... advice please.
p.s. My FB status has not yet changed, so you know we are not serious yet.